"If you've ever caught yourself slaving away on some completely inane task like sweeping up after the kids for what feels like the fifteenth time that day, and think your life has turned into being the perennial fixer/cleaner/etc of everyone else's life, stop and take a breath mama. The She Betta Don't cross stitch pattern is a play on the phrase "oh no she betta don't" popularized in drag culture, it loosely means "oh no she'd better not [do xyz]." Don't beat up on yourself for doing what you need to do for yourself and your family, don't get down or disheartened, and remember that you are a fierce strong woman who rules her world. As the queens would say, "You are sickening mamaaaa," aka you are the best and you should be proud of yourself. Keep that head held high, and don't let those daily tasks wear you down. Get out some of those frustrations by stabbing a piece of fabric repeatedly to create the She Betta Don't cross stitch pattern as a daily reminder to stay fierce. Sample stitched over two on Zweigart 28 count Cashel raw linen (Natural). The pattern comes with a full black and white pattern and a full colour pattern."